Begging is Bad!
How to Get Your Ex Back Tips #2: Begging is Bad.
When was the last time begging actually worked for you? Maybe with your parents when you were younger? That is, until they had enough of it and learned how to tell you “no”. After that, you probably didn’t have that much success with it. Begging never even crossed your mind. That is, until you and your ex broke up.
You might have thought about begging your ex to take you back. You might have even tried it a couple of times to get your ex back. If you have, stop it now! It’s only going to create problems for you in the future.
Begging is the bane of getting your ex back. Do it enough, and you can pretty much hang up any hope you have of rekindling your love. But why? Why is begging such a bad thing? You’re showing your ex how much you love them by pleading for them to take you back. Why would they not like that?
Here’s just three reasons why begging doesn’t work:
1. You become a charity case in your ex’s mind.
The general definition of begging is to ask for something as a gift or a favor. There’s your first hint at why begging is one of the worst ideas ever.
How would you like your ex to take you back as a favor to you – or better yet, as a charity case? What does this tell you? Number one, they’re taking you back out of guilt. Number two, they feel sorry for you. Do you really think that the new relationship will be healthy, let alone last?
Do you want to be seen as a charity case in your ex’s eyes? If they cave in to your begging, that’s the way your ex will view you. They won’t appreciate the new relationship the two of you share, and both of you will suffer because of it.
2. Begging makes you and your ex feel weak.
Begging screams weakness to both parties involved. You’re weak for having to beg to get your ex back. Your ex is weak because they took you back out of guilt. Two weak people never equal a strong relationship.
The weak foundation your new relationship is built upon will crumble, and it will be almost impossible to pick up the pieces and put them back together again. The second time is hard enough. The third time will be almost impossible. There’s only so many break ups a relationship can handle. Don’t enter into your new relationship with a weak constitution. It will never last.
3. You wonder why your ex took you back.
If your ex decides to take you back after begging, how will you view yourself? Will you really believe your ex took you back because they love you and can’t live without you? Or, in the back of your mind, will you constantly worry that your ex only took you back out of pity and guilt? What do you think this will do to your confidence? Yep, you guessed it. It will damage it.
You won’t be able to truly respect your ex if you have the slightest suspicion that their reason for taking you back was out of pity. You have to be attracted to your ex as much as they are attracted to you. This is almost impossible to achieve if you suspect that their motive for taking you back is fueled by insincere feelings. Your respect for your ex is just as important as their respect for you.
We’ve established that begging isn’t going to work for you to get your ex back. You and your ex both have more strength and pride than that, and you don’t want to wonder for the rest of your relationship if your ex took you back out of guilt. What should you do instead?
You do the opposite of begging. You stay strong. You show your ex what they’re missing. You display the confidence you’ve gained since the separation, and you prove to them that you are worth another shot. You wait until you know your ex is ready for a new relationship with you, then you take control and deliver what they want. You’re in control of your destiny. You decide what you do in your life.
Strength and confidence are attractive to just about everyone walking this earth. Don’t be weak and beg for your ex to take you back. Remember that you’re better than that. Instead, be strong and make your ex want you back by emphasizing the qualities they loved about you. In the end, your new relationship will be more real than ever before, and it will last for years to come.
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