How to Get Your Ex Back Tips #1: Keep Your Distance

Okay, your life sucks right now.  That’s a no brainer!

The love of your life just broke up with you.  You’re alone.  You’re scared.  You’re hurt.  You need your ex back!  I bet you want to call them right now…

DON’T DO IT!

If you really want to know how to get your ex back, if you’re seriously want to save your relationship right now, What you and your ex need at this moment is distance.  You need space.

I know, this sounds like horrible advice.

You’re wondering what your ex is doing.  Who are they with?  Are they missing you?  Are they even thinking about you?  You have no idea.

All you know, is that if you keep calling and texting and calling some more, they’re bound to pick up the phone eventually.  That’s probably not going to happen.  Why?  Because they WANT some space.  It’s not that your ex doesn’t care about you anymore.  I’m sure they do, and you’re sure they do, too.  If you didn’t, you wouldn’t be trying to win them back.

And because you’re trying to get your ex back, keeping your distance is the best thing you can do.  You can’t see it now, but giving your ex some space is the most powerful trick you have in your bag.  It gives you an advantage.

Think about it.

With everything the two of you have been through, do you really think your ex is going to get over you this quick?  No…not at all.  It’s quite the opposite actually.

What do you think your ex would do if you stopped calling them for a week?

Chances are, they would be doing the same thing you’ve been doing for the past week – thinking non-stop about you!  They’d wonder why you haven’t called.  They’d wonder who you’ve been hanging out with.  They’d wonder if you’ve moved on and found someone else.  They’d be just as worried as you are.

That’s why it’s time for you to break all contact with your ex, and you have to be ready to do it for at least two weeks.  Can you do that?  You’ve GOT TO.

You know what they say…

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

By breaking contact with your ex, you’re forcing them to use their imagination to try and figure out what you’ve been doing for the past two weeks.  And you know as well as I do that your imagination can run wild on you.  What plays out in your mind is always worse than in real life.  In their minds, you could be seeing someone else by now.  You could be completely over them.  You could be having the time of your life – something they’re not included in.

Do you see how this can work in your favor?

There’s another advantage to this mental sabotage.

Keeping your distance gives your ex time to think.  It gives them time to contemplate life without you.

For the past year or more, their life has revolved around a relationship – a relationship with you.  Now they’re on their own.  They don’t get to talk to you every day.  They don’t get to talk about their problems with you.  They don’t have anyone to listen to them.

But if you’re calling and texting all the time, do you think this gives them a chance to miss all of the things I previously mentioned?  No.  Their minds are preoccupied – wondering why you can’t leave them alone, if only for a couple of days.  They don’t have time to think about missing you.  They only have time to think about how irritating and unattractive your recent actions have been.  Point blank, constant contact after a break up is annoying.  Annoying is not attractive to anyone.

Keeping your distance from your ex is the fastest way to push your ex to contact you after the break up. It’s the best way to get your ex back after a breakup.  Just like you, they can’t stand to be alone and not know what you’ve been up to for the past couple of weeks.

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