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Learn how to get your ex back with this 5 mind tricks

As you think back about your relationship you may be asking yourself what went wrong. At the beginning of your time together everything was all new and exciting as you discovered each other. After awhile some of the newness wears off and everything doesn’t seem so perfect any more. If things went sour for you and your ex then you should try these mind tricks than can help you get your ex back.

While you are probably feeling miserable about the break up, have you stopped to think about what your ex is feeling? The longer a relationship lasts the more intense the feelings usually are. Just because they asked for a break doesn’t mean that they no longer care. Here’s how to get your ex back.

First – Realize that your ex is dealing with a lot of emotions right now too.

Your ex is most likely feeling guilty about having to break your heart. Add that to the feelings he or she is dealing with about having to end the relationship and you have a lot of painful emotions. You may think that they are avoiding you, and you are probably right as they try to avoid all the negative feelings.

Second – Play smart and give them some space.

Don’t make the cardinal mistake that almost everyone does after a break up – calling, texting or emailing them continually. While you may feel desperate to talk to them what you are really doing is backing them into a corner.  This will only make them try to avoid you. By leaving them completely alone you will actually strategically gain power.

Third – Switch tactics.

Maybe you have already been contacting him or her and not leaving them alone. It’s never too late to switch tactics. Leave them wondering why you stopped bugging them all the time. They will be curious as to why you are not talking to them and will be checking for your texts or calls.

Fourth – If they can’t have it, they want it.

All of a sudden you have made yourself scarce and their vanity is piqued. They have been imagining you curled up by the phone all day waiting for them to call. Our human desire is to want what we cannot have. Where do you think the idea of playing hard to get come from?

Fifth – You gain control.

People will fight for things that appear just out of reach. Your ex has lost that feeling of control that they got when they called it quits. If you can make them feel like you are the one leaving them that leaves him or her on shaky ground. You now have some power in the situation.

When you do talk to them you don’t want to blow all your hard work. Keeping your emotions under control and playing it cool will make them work to get you. Don’t undo everything by acting cling and needy – now is the time to act with self assurance and have a solid plan of what you want to say and what your goal is. These simple mind tricks can really help you get your ex back.

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